Wednesday, March 2, 2011

THE closer I GET

the reason i dont talk to tou anymore is because i keep telling myself if you wanted to speak to me, YOU WOULD

whenever a person is ignoring me, what they’re actually doing is making a conscious choice to communicate that I’m not important to them…it is also giving me an idea to care less.
 
If you ignore me, I will ignore you. If you don’t start the conversation, we won’t talk. If you don’t put in the effort, why should I? 

im tired of people who are like hot and then cold, one day they will talk to me like there is no tomorrow and make me feels important and probably make me fall for them, and then one day it is like i don’t even exist in their life…they ignore me like they are having an amnesia or something…its like they are no where to be found, its like they’re playing mind games…people are so confusing.

and you are one of those people..




A Reason, a Season, or a Lifetime People come into your life for a reason, a season, or a lifetime. When you figure out which one it is, you will know what to do for each person. When someone is in your life for a REASON … It is usually to meet a need you have expressed. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally, or spiritually. They may seem like a godsend, and they are! They are there for the reason you need them to be.
Then, without any wrong doing on your part, or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand. What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done. The prayer you sent up has been answered. And now it is time to move on.
When people come into your life for a SEASON … Because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn. They bring you an experience of peace, or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season. LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons; things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person, and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life. It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.
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